Feeling Stuck Between a Rock and a Hard Place?

The smallest movement within impermanence: Exploring how the body's innate wisdom guides us when we're feeling stuck.

Shauna

11/15/20251 min read

Small rock wedged between large boulders illustrating feeling stuck
Small rock wedged between large boulders illustrating feeling stuck

Feeling Stuck Between a Rock and a Hard Place?

When we're caught between impossible choices, isolation and disconnection can follow. This disconnection—from ourselves, from others, from our bodies—creates dis-ease. Not disease, but dis-ease: the body not at ease.

Patterns in the Nervous System

The nervous system gets wired through habitual patterns in thought and action. When we encounter the same situation repeatedly, the body learns a response. Over time, these patterns become automatic pathways.

Questions Worth Asking

How do we wiggle out of this stuck place? Do we need to get out of it? What is "getting out" anyway? These are questions we might explore when we remember that nothing is permanent.

The Body's Innate Wisdom

Here's something the body knows: our current condition is not permanent. Everything changes. Cells renew. Breath moves. The body is always in process. The smallest movement possible? A breath. When we're between the rock and the hard place, both can be teachers. The question becomes less about escape and more about presence. Can we breathe here? Can we notice what's alive in this moment?

Coming Back

Dis-ease happens when we lose connection. Ease can return when we come back—to the body, to the breath, to what's actually happening now. The body holds wisdom about impermanence, about change, about finding space even in tight places. Sometimes the way through is simply to breathe and notice: this moment is not permanent. The smallest breath of realization. Right where we are.